Wedding showers

I just started looking at ideas online for wedding showers.  Most ideas I've found are in the category of "I'd rather stick pins in my eyes".  Suffice it to say, we will NOT be doing anything requiring clothes pin, cotton balls, toilet paper, or construction paper cut into heart shapes... We WILL be looking for a winery where we can gather and drink to Laura's happiness.  What does this have to do with my blog topics?  Well, I guess creating a shower to Laura's liking, will bring me (and her) serenity.